Dr. Serge Stollero and his team conducted a study on men's brains before, during and after sex, and discovered that men are biologically programmed to sleep after achieving orgasm.
According to the analyzed X-rays, the man's cerebral cortex enters a state of readiness for rest after orgasm, where signals are sent to the rest of the brain to reduce sexual desire, and the secretion of serotonin and opioids begins, which are two substances that play a major role in stimulating sleep.
On the other hand, women are less susceptible to this phenomenon, as they secrete oxytocin and "trust hormones" after orgasm, which enhances their feelings of connection and desire to hug and exchange words of love. This biological difference can sometimes lead to misunderstandings between spouses.
How can these differences be dealt with?
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For menBefore you go to sleep, spend a few minutes cuddling with your wife and saying something nice or thanking her for her performance. This simple act will satisfy her emotional need and strengthen your relationship.
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For the wifeIf you notice that your husband falls asleep immediately after intercourse, do not take it personally, as this behavior is completely normal and has a biological explanation. Try to understand his need for rest without insisting, because his body is designed differently than yours.
Ultimately, understanding and communication between spouses about these natural differences strengthens the marital relationship and increases intimacy and harmony.
